Hello Boys and Girls, are we sitting comfortably? Then I'll begin....

I am only meeting socially at the moment and am not meeting for sex for the forseeable future, for the best possible reason. I am currently seeing a wonderful woman called Kitty who wants me all yo herself and who can blame her? I'm still happy to chat and meet up for nights out etc.

I'm an forty-something (yeesh!) southern pansy living in exile in (not-so) sunny Stockport. I'm pretty friendly and fun-loving, then again who opens their profile by saying miserable and boring? Mind you I do spend a lot of time hanging with Goths, so maybe... ...nah! I have my own Flat so can accommodate, I also make the occasional forays to the village, Club Selecta & Goth nights at ARA. I went flying past bi-curious several blocks back and am very bi. my Preference is for T-Birds & Real Girls but do enjoy going with guys as long as they have the ability to converse and embrace personal hygiene!

Visually I favour the Fetish/Goth look and love black lace, satin, velvet, patent heels & corsetry. I adore FF nylons although perversely also have a thing about tights. Something about a nice round nylon encased bottom that does it for me. Don't hate having them ripped open in the heat of passion either. Hair colour is of course mutable but tends to be dark brown or black, eyes are blue (can't change them and wouldn't anyway 'cos they're gorgeous!!! LOL!). I have to be honest and say I'm teetering between voluptuous vixen and lardy lust-bucket.

I love clubbing, going to movies and am a bit of a bookworm. Musically I am at heart a big ol' Punk Rocker but have pretty wide tastes including Goth (Que'lle suprise!), darkwave, rockabilly, rock, ska, techno, happy hardcore, metal and even some *shudder* indie. I unfortunately have a fairly low tolerance for saccharine pop toons but that's my problem I guess. I am a huge SF Fantasy fan, some of my fondest fantasies involve Lucy Lawless, John Barrowman, Grace Park and a huge four-poster! Bit of a PC freak and recently lost a great deal of time to Oblivion but am in rehab. I also love to cook and am, let's be modest here, a pretty damned amazing chef. (And yes I can use that title, I may have quit some time ago but I spent ten years working in hotels and restaurants).